Someone once said, “Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.”
You can spend your whole life planning for your future, but all that may pass you by if you do not stop every once in a while, to look around. Pam Graham knows firsthand just how precious every small moment can be. She has learned from her son, Carson, who is affected by autism, how to slow down and appreciate the beautiful scenes in life.
Pam grew up in West Virginia with her fraternal twin, Alisha. She spent her summers visiting with her grandparents at Smith Lake and graduated with a degree in Applied Science Drafting & Technology from Wallace State Community College. When she moved to Cullman in 2004, she worked at what is now Cross Creek Golf Course where she met her husband, Shane.
In 2014, Pam initially came to R.E. Garrison through the billing department. She eventually left the next year to spend more time with Carson. But came back in 2020 as a customer service representative. When asked what brought her back, she cited the environment. She said, “It's like a family. Everyone is so close set.”
Pam also says that one of her favorite things about R.E. Garrison is the non-profit established 2018, Garrison Gives Hope. She said, “I believe in what they do. I really have a passion for who they are, and I love this place.”
Garrison Gives Hope is not Pam’s only foundation she is passionate about. She is also the board president at Flourish of Cullman, Inc. According to their website, Flourish was opened in 2016 with the purpose of assisting people with disabilities to live and work independently with the help of a support network.
The owner of Flourish, Melissa Dew, first reached out to Pam after Carson was diagnosed with autism in 2010 at 13 months old. Back then, Melissa was the therapy coordinator at a local rehabilitation and therapy center. Melissa said, “Pamela and her husband always asked questions and got feedback from lots of individuals to see what was best for him.”
Pam said that her son had reached all his milestones at an extremely fast rate and was forming full sentences by his first birthday. About a month later it all suddenly came to a halt. Carson was no longer communicating with his parents, and it was like a curtain had been drawn.
After his diagnosis, Pam was just relieved to have answers. She said that she did not spend a lot of time on the “why” and was just focused on figuring out how to help. She said, “As a parent, you just want what’s best for him.”
The hardest part of Carson’s diagnoses ultimately has nothing to do with Carson. Pam said that the most difficult obstacle is other people’s lack of understanding. She emphasized how important it is to be patient with strangers and their children in places like the grocery store. “If people could meet and understand him, they would enjoy life more.”
Pam said that one time she noticed Carson sitting in the window and instead of dismissing it or moving on to a different task she instead sat down next to him and asked him what he was looking at. He showed her the light shining through the glass causing a rainbow prism. She said “Everything we miss, he sees. You love life when you are with him.”
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